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Spike your humor and sarcasm hold much truth known to me already, but this
is another experience of a "an experimenter" as myself, and I am 57
now, <span style=""> </span>but I have clues to success and
then we'll three info-resurrect ourselves :) , and love and compassion and moral, <span style=""> </span>can even be instantiated in three, and so
often is not found in pair, so wish me good luck and I surely do report back.
By the way, once I came across a nice book about MD... etc"
BY Spike, is it you ?:)</span></p>
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Ja
"naturally", but your wife will surely help with these. She
will have<br>
surprisingly little difficulty finding two additional men, and a second job<br>
for you to cover the increased expenses.<br>
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Honest to jahweh, David, I would be very surprised if the ladies go for this<br>
notion. Even really rich guys can seldom pull it off. But if you
work it<br>
out, congratulations. Do report back. Even if not, do report back
anyway.<br>
We want to hear what your Indian wife hit you with when you suggested it.<br>
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spike</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; direction: ltr; unicode-bidi: embed; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">Jef
Allbright" wrote:<br>
>> Might it be that the most effective<br>
>> relationship structure in terms of cost/benefit might be the triad?<br>
>> I'm not talking about polyamory or mriage ? trois but rather a<br>
>> stable, committed triadic relationship between three individuals<br>
>> in any combination of genders.<br>
><br>
> Amazing what you say Jef, i am married to an Indian woman, I love<br>
> here,a few months ago i came to live in Israel and have new lover,<br>
> my wife is supposed to come soon to live with me, and i intend and<br>
> hope to maintain a trio, which i "naturally" there are some
personal<br>
> and social difficulties, especially in conservative Jerusalem, yet<br>
> some personal advantages, but your claim is encouraging, will you<br>
> elaborate please ?<br>
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David, when I suggested
that triadic relationships might provide<br>
inherent advantages, I hinted (strongly, I thought), but did not make<br>
fully make explicit, that I thought this form might rise to predominance<br>
within a more highly developed (and more highly competitive) culture<br>
with individuals possessing a higher degree of awareness than the<br>
present situation.</span></p>
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Jef, true, but personally I strive for higher
awareness but only sometime achieve it, yet in the future, I intend to permanently
be there and we are training ourselves to that future </span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0%; font-size: 10pt; font-family: Wingdings; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);">
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As Keith Henson mentioned, evolutionary psychology provides a good basis</span><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);">
for understanding much of the dynamics of human relationships at the</span><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);">
individual and group level. There are strong reasons why such</span><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);">
relationships are not stable within the social context. [Note to Keith:</span><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);">
I studied Cosmidies and Toobey and others several years ago, but thanks</span><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);">
anyway for the suggestion. ;-)]</span><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);">
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In your particular case, I wish you luck maintaining your</span><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);">
relationship(s). Perhaps you and your partners should read Heinlein for</span><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);">
inspiration. </span><b style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);">Note that a high degree of openess and honesty is<br>
recommended, but rarely achieved over the course</b><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);">." </span><span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);">My reply: honesty and
high degree of openness is a must, yet it </span></span></span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0%; font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial; font-weight: bold;">
sometimes should come gradually</span><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-weight: bold; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">. </span><br>
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