<HTML><FONT FACE=arial,helvetica><HTML><FONT SIZE=2 PTSIZE=10>In a message dated 26/02/2008 19:34:36 GMT Standard Time, aiguy@comcast.net writes:<BR>
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<BLOCKQUOTE TYPE=CITE style="BORDER-LEFT: #0000ff 2px solid; MARGIN-LEFT: 5px; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 5px">Most children and adults for that matter do not have strong enough egos and self confidence to stand up to extended amounts of ridicule. <BR>
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Each attack erodes their self esteem and self image and results in resentment and hatred and lack of respect towards the antagonists.<BR>
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</FONT><FONT COLOR="#000000" BACK="#ffffff" style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: #ffffff" SIZE=2 PTSIZE=10 FAMILY="SANSSERIF" FACE="Arial" LANG="0">The opposite can also be true and can be more easily achieved with a bit of coaching or support.</FONT><FONT COLOR="#000000" BACK="#ffffff" style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: #ffffff" SIZE=2 PTSIZE=10 FAMILY="SANSSERIF" FACE="Arial" LANG="0"><BR>
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<BLOCKQUOTE TYPE=CITE style="BORDER-LEFT: #0000ff 2px solid; MARGIN-LEFT: 5px; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 5px">Hence in marriage, ridicule turns love into hatred and divorce. At some point primal defense mechanisms may ensue and violence erupts. Thankfully divorce usually ensues before this happens.<BR>
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</FONT><FONT COLOR="#000000" BACK="#ffffff" style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: #ffffff" SIZE=2 PTSIZE=10 FAMILY="SANSSERIF" FACE="Arial" LANG="0">Violence is not an acceptable response to ridicule. Divorce may well be.<BR>
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<BLOCKQUOTE TYPE=CITE style="BORDER-LEFT: #0000ff 2px solid; MARGIN-LEFT: 5px; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 5px">Anytime you win an argument and have made an enemy in the process, can this be considered winning? <BR>
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</FONT><FONT COLOR="#000000" BACK="#ffffff" style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: #ffffff" SIZE=2 PTSIZE=10 FAMILY="SANSSERIF" FACE="Arial" LANG="0">It may depend why you were arguing and if you were correct. Also is the outcome of the argument positive? why would you consider someone an enemy just because they showed you were wrong?<BR>
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<BLOCKQUOTE TYPE=CITE style="BORDER-LEFT: #0000ff 2px solid; MARGIN-LEFT: 5px; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 5px">Of course I am sure that many of you who use ridicule to win arguments or promote yourselves on a daily basis are oblivious to your enemies because you consider them weak and of little consequence. <BR>
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The sheep you prey upon realize this and in most cases their egos and self-confidence will remain intact enough to resist lashing out at their aggressors.<BR>
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But at some point a certain number of the sheep will go postal and send a message to to wolves still out there who still lack the empathy to realize that mental pain is every bit as real as physical pain.<BR>
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</FONT><FONT COLOR="#000000" BACK="#ffffff" style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: #ffffff" SIZE=2 PTSIZE=10 FAMILY="SANSSERIF" FACE="Arial" LANG="0">Very worrying. I can only imagine that your personal experiences have somewhat tainted your views. What has drawn you to conclude that this is a you and us argument? or that you know 'Us' well enough to cast such generalities?<BR>
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<BLOCKQUOTE TYPE=CITE style="BORDER-LEFT: #0000ff 2px solid; MARGIN-LEFT: 5px; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 5px">The question that is whether the AGI will consider mental pain as real and as serious as physical pain and equate ridicule with violence and judge you accordingly.<BR>
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As long as you don't have a hand in its original program, I think I am safe ;o)<BR>
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