[ExI] barber

[William Flynn Wallace]

I have really never known the difference between being friendly and
flirting.  In fact I have asked women if I was flirting with them and have
gotten no response.  One girl student once told me that she was flirting
with me rather strongly (she later said that she had a big crush on me) and
I never noticed.  Par for the course.  I leave it to your imagination what
it would take for me to realize that a female was flirting with me.

I think women of a certain age appreciate a bit of flirting.  Shows they
could still be in the game; still thought of as attractive.  I would not
flirt with any intention of doing anything about it as I am a serial
monogamist - married four times.  Three women.

I think flirting may be difficult to define.  If a woman wears a top with
lots of cleavage I am going to look though hopefully not drool.  Is she
flirting?  Am I?  What if I looked up into her face and smiled?

Anybody have a take on this?

bill w

On Mon, Mar 23, 2020 at 9:32 AM spike jones via extropy-chat <
extropy-chat at lists.extropy.org> wrote:

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> >  Beyond stunned. I was getting a haircut and asked the barber how
> > most people parted their hair on the left versus the right.
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> I have found the answer to that problem Bill: I go to a barber who speaks
> very little English, and I speak no Vietnamese.  Her shop is 4 minutes walk
> from my house, so if I get to where I cannot drive before cars drive
> themselves, I can still get my hair cut, and there is no chatter about left
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> If she did speak English, I wouldn’t talk to her or even go to her shop:
> too attractive, and she dresses like she means it.  {8^D
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> We fellers who have been happily married for 36 years have our techniques
> for staying that way: be boring.
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