[ExI] porn is for women

[Will Steinberg]

Lol, a very Spike view...

I think what you mentioned is a very small portion of the toxic male roles
that pornography teaches.  I would be more concerned about the
objectification of and violence towards women that it teaches, especially
in contemporary porn.  It has become extremely violent and degenerate.

On Thu, Jul 28, 2022 at 4:07 PM spike jones via extropy-chat <
extropy-chat at lists.extropy.org> wrote:

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> *…*> *On Behalf Of *William Flynn Wallace via extropy-chat
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> *Subject:* [ExI] porn is for women
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> https://psyche.co/ideas/does-porn-harm-or-help-gender-could-matter-in-a-surprising-way?
>  bill w
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> Hard to say Billw, but I can imagine a scenario in which it harms both in
> a way.  Young couple who haven’t done much yet watch porn video (either
> together or on a Zoom meeting for instance) and don’t realize that a
> typical 20 minute porn video is spliced together from three or four
> separate sessions.  It creates the illusion that the man can go at this
> non-stop for 20 minutes, and perhaps some can, but I speculate that most of
> us would be lucky to go half that long after the real action starts.
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> The boy gets a complex (knowing that he cannot) and is afraid to go
> forward, for he is aware of his own limitations: he will be lucky if he
> goes 5 minutes (hey, he’s a teenager)  The girl presses forward, eager to
> experience what the porno star wildly exaggerated.  She has absurdly
> distorted expectations and is disappointed.
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> Sheesh, now I will get slammed with guys claiming they can go 20 minutes
> on their worst day and what’s wrong with you, etc.  Oy vey, I endure so
> much for you guys.
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